1. Put Your Safety Before Anyone Else's Expectations If you're planning on bottoming and you're worried about eating beforehand, remember that your safety and wellbeing come first. If you need to eat, then eat. Many people worry about accidents, but staying fuelled and hydrated will help you stay safe, sober, and enjoy the day for longer. A small travel douche kit can be useful for peace of mind if needed. If you decide to eat lightly, make sure you've at least had something earlier in the...